The Mating Dance to Mate-enance. Posted on February 14, 2018March 2, 2018 by Ally Rugge in Relationships. It's All Relative. Happy Valentine's Day from my Relationship Therapy Archives. Ever wonder what happened to the romance? Why things were so good in the beginning and then...what changed? Learn about the maturation of love from The Mating Dance to Mate-enance.